I have found that for many people the process of accepting the death of someone close is difficult. Grief can be a crushing pain in the heart as we know we have to face life without them by our side.
It is the ultimate part of life we have no control over.
The more I work with people and the more I connect with those in the spirit world, the more I understand that it is life that we are here to accept.
Life is a journey with a beginning and an end. It is the same for every living thing, nothing escapes.
When I think about my own life there are many parts I have struggled to accept. There has been a part of me that wanted to control everything and everyone, to keep people I loved close to me and not have them suffer any sort of pain. There was a part of me that did not want to age, to change or to die. It can happen to everyone else but not to me or my loved ones. Sound familiar?
Acceptance is not resignation or giving up or not caring. It is the realisation that we can stay in pain by wishing things were different. Acceptance has the power to life the clouds of grief and pain from our bodies and minds and more importantly from our hearts.
Our loved ones in the world of spirit are not in any physical pain as they no longer have a physical body. They have a soul that is eternal and the memories we have, the love we shared, the joy of being part of each other’s lives remains as long as we allow it too. We think they are not with us but they are. They walk along side of us and they only want our happiness just as we want theirs.
Wishing you peace as you travel on your journey through life………